Am i a Harasser??

Just read a interesting article regarding how to fend off harasser ??
1. Send an "I'm off-limits" signal. You've noticed the tendency of a guy you know to act inappropriately. Whenever he's around, talk about your happy personal life -- as in, "My husband is so great" -- to make it clear you're not available.
2. Avoid sensitive situations. If a man you don't know well offers you a ride to an off-site business meeting, politely decline. If he insists, stand your ground -- even if he makes you feel silly for doing so.
3. Use humor. When you notice someone verging on bad behavior -- say, a stranger leers at you or stands too close -- send a back-off message tinged with humor (such as, "Hey, not so close there!"), since a more confrontational approach could make the situation escalate.
Quoted from :http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/
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Guess if any one of ur frienz apply this technique to you mean that you are a harasser.
To everyone out there.If one day u find that u are a harasser , u must do something to stop it if not u will be dislike by alot of people...

I was pester by my frienz to blog about this event lorz .. Although was not in the mood to do so due to too much set back .... Any way manage to grab hold of the third postition for the school category for the sumsung inline compeititon .. First being the team of our fellow frienz with singapore fastest skater in it ... Second was secondary school kids from i guess pasir ris sec.... Losing to them only mean one thing , we are all too old liao ... haha no more in the ability to fight with the young ppl liao ..So all cheers to this branch of old ppl - including me hehe who manage to at least hold on to a tropies ... At first thought that each of my team member will be able to bring home a medal but unfortuantely we are given a tropies and i mean "a" that implies only one and only one .So how in the hell are we able to separate the trophies into parts and bring home. Even if we did that , the trophies wont appear as it is liao so no point .. Any way guess not gonna write much ,have to go do some reflection on myself to see how to make me a better person . ANy way all the best to all youngster out there ... Cheers for being young .And stay healthy as life isnt gonna be good when u turn older as the years goes by .... 

I am back but still not quite in the mood ..... On wed finance lecture , my frienz - jiawei pass me a cutiing .Ops ... i am on the newspaper ... So since it was the first time (i think) i appear on paper i guess i must blog abt it .... This event was organise by FM 987 , Where they claim that it was in the history of SIngapore that Skater can skate on the road ... Hmmm It is true but too bad the distance was too short ... AFter Skating for 1-2 years , finally can see a bit of benefit hehe .. But the most important thing is that , in the newspaper i was in front of the SIngapore Fastest Speed skaters.Haha ... Never will i had the chance to be in front except this time hehe.... 

Skateline Night SKate .... Never know i attend one of these cos i thought it was a Nus activity but it turn out to be not .Hehe .Not veri fun though as compare to the usual urban skate we have from esplanade down to orchard . New SLiver twister . Haha it look nice with my long black pants . Hmmm have to go back to Unit soon since i didnt manage to clear the probation 26 hr of unit time For Npcc as was reminded by my senior.How ?? I don't know what to do when go back unit?? Cos the last time i went back it was like sitting down on the bench watching the cadets drill all the while . I hate doing noting . 

Hmmm it has been a bit of time since i last posted any thing on the blog . Basically didnt post is becos not in the mood to do so (some ppl will know why ).Beside also alot of tutorial to rush and exam to study . So will keep this short for now .Any way this picture is taken on Yaolong bday and edited by Jiawei .  

NUSSC EXCO. THis picture was taken on monday where all of us attend the Sport Club AGM so as to verify that our club is still there will peopler supporting it .hehe which mean can get sponsor for some activity from sport club which implies money hehe . STay till quite late before going home . Guess too much activity kill me lorz .My cough isnt getting any way better with constant stress from school and .......... Guess i have to tone down a bit . hehe  

HAPPY TEACHER'S DAY

WOh .it been almost 4-5 years since i last went back to my secondary school - geylang methodist secondary school.School have move to a temporary place near kallang bahru .This session was organised last min as i only know that today is teacher's day from yesterday. ANd thus only manage to get 2 ppl(huanjie and chee keong) to join me in this trip as most have morning class. MOst of my teacher is not there any more .except form teacher - Johnny joseph (who have change alot in the way he speak english and sound more local. Biology teacher - Miss lam (never spoken to her cos lack of time need to rush back to NUS for lecture).Chemistry teacher-Miss Ng (also didnt talk to her ) . Chinese teacher -Mrs liao (also never talk to her ).Tour trip teacher -Mrs chng (talk to her about life in Nus )hehe came back mostly because of her as my sister(currently studying there) say she complain that i "wan en fu yi " and didnt visit her .hehe so now i am back there visiting .Prefect master when i left school - Mr CHua( haha he still remember i help him up in teacher day by modelling his clothes in the teacher day performance last time. Then rush to school for lecture after which go over to parent shop to bring my dad to see doctor . 

haha.i am back as usual with my cannot make it english.whaha.Skate course have just finish and the whole course is like sun tanning lorz . with the blazing heat ,teaching ppl how to skate is tougher cos all the time is finding place with shelter .hehe.the course lasted for 2 days from sat to sun.Didnt take any picture cos no one brought camera along hehe. Stay thru out sat and sun morning then afternoon went with frienz to Ktv cos want to get a bit of enjoyment before all the exam come busting in . ANy way i am not the designer of this picture just taking JW pic cos too lazy to do one out hehe.ani way have a great time singing cos every one there is able to endure my pitchless voice . ANi i am not there to be superstar haha so no harm sing out loud and to my enjoyment as long as the ppl there can take it .Ani one there want to join our brotherhood and sisterhood KTV gang??  

RAG DAY

Went for NUS rag day to help up in NUSNPCC to raise flag and also to cheer for biz ad. Went the day before to school at 9 pm to help up a bit in biz ad rag cos felt a bit paisei after been ask so many times by rosie to go down help up. Stay thru out without sleeping to torch up a bit on the float and also to push the float all the way from biz to SRC. As compare to last yr , we are lucky this yr as the wheels for the float is working pretty well as compare to last yr ,where all the guys have to carry the float that weight tonne from biz to SRC.Note it is carry and not push . Last yr before pushing ,t-shirt is dry and clean .after pushing it is like we are under heavy rain . This is was better onlt sweat a bit. hehe . went to meet up with the rest of from npcc at around 8.30 pm but was late due to my forgetfulness in shaving - keep returning back to car to get stuff.The flag raising was a success ,congrate all . BUt unfortunately biz ad rag was a disastrous .NOt that the float was bad or what but it just that luck is not on our side cos to me our float was the best .U all can say,where got own fac ppl say their float not nice, but my other fac ppl also say so hehe .In the end we only won a shield .BUt till now ,i received a email regarding NUSSU mistake on a particular shield which suppose to be won by us but end up in other faculty .Heard that will be a official represent of shield to us .hehe cheers all biz adder and NPCC colleague. 

This is my group pedro for the O week .Big isnt it. But it has not been the case for the past few days of the Oweek.It has been a tough time to encourage the freshie to turn up for the event Since most of the event is talk and seldom have nice bonding games.This is first in my lifetime handling a group of ppl who need super lots of push to get them down -guess my hp /sms bill will shot up.Previously in NPCC , student dare not complain that they cannot come and thus force by the power of organisation to come .ANd in fresh man orientation camp , student pay for it and are force by the power of money to come.BUt this time round ,i am lacking in both that thus have to use the power of persuation to get them down.It has been the toughest orientation but a fun and enriching one. Cheers guys and gals talk more interact more as what i usually say.hehe.Take care hope u have a good time in my group and all the best for ur future.Before i end ,my group seem to be quite diverse with exchange student from HOngKOng-my idol andy lau country and student from vietnam , to local student. But it fun having all of them there .Take care. 

hmm it has been quite a long time that i blog .GUess i am caught up with too much stuff like Oweek event.Guess all our effort in getting donation have gone down the drain after today defeat from rag day. I persuade most of my member to turn up for flag day but in the end was unable to raise enough funds to beat the other faculty .GUess thing dont goes as what u want them to be.BUt i guess i have a fun time hanging around with my group member and councillor in collecting every bits of money.hehe. ENded the flag event at around 7pm since all freshie need to go home.After which went with some of the freshie and councillor to go geylang eat "tou jiang you tiao " since we are flagging near that area .Never forget to reward one self after a day of hard work. 

Attended thersa bday celebration after skating session . Was too engross with skating resulted in coming too late for party ani way didnt miss the cake cutting at all.hehe.Happi 22 bday thersa .  

Long lost pen pal .Hehe met up with my long lost pen pal cum sec 2A monitress cum "little sister" .Hul was flipping thru past memories previously and wanted to contact all those long lost frienz as meeting up can bring back memories . ANd saw one of them on msn and surprisingly she was in singapore too so try to arrange a meeting. Arranging a meeting for 2 is simple but getting group of ppl is tough and since i am those who couldnt come up with much thing to talk so have to arrange a group meeting lorz.Hull she really busy thus making the arrangement tough but in the end was able to come up with one on that day at bedok hawker centre for 3-4 hour .Am i great at organising .hehe .SOmetime life can be full of regret. something u wanna do but u werent able to do it . Like unable to keep in contact with pri school frienz.and many more lol. 

"Flyer" .."Flyer".. "Come get ur free flyer. TOday went for part time job as flyer distributer using blade as a mean of moving .The rate is $8 per hour ,is it worth it? ALl of us work for around 5 hr but at the end of day my leg is crying out in pain. this is worst than urban skate .guess maybe not used to my new skate .hehe.another problem is that it rain today making the ground veri slippery .hence ,can't skate freely -have to control my step so as not to fall.ANi this is the first time that skating have come in use to earn money ,so to ppl out there .Dun miss out on another mean to earn money ,come learn skate either from me or join NUS skate club.tata 

went to skate today ,although i have put tape across part that are bound to wear out due to slide but my effort was waste after i do a hockey slide my boot still wear out .I guess i have to enhance my protection by putting epoxy on top of the tape then another tape layer to let it look nicer.Hehe that will be my new enhance so guys just wait and see my modification of boots(although not enhance the effect/power of blade but enhance the protection) hehe 

My nEw SKate ..... TWister technical (03/04) 

NUSNPCC CHALET 2005 .7-9 july. Hahah another chalet written at an outdated timing. This chalet was held at a mini- bunglow over at aloha chagi chalet a few distance away from changi village.AGain once again i was the transported of stuff in out of the chalet . But the sad thing about this time round is that due to my poor driving skill, on my way to get the ppl my car sports rim was scatch and it was a headache as to i have to report to my parent regarding this thing.But the good thing is that i get pay for my fuel fee so i have no complain.So after paying 15 for the chalet and getting 30 dollar back i still earn 15 dollar.But the bad thing is that i have to stay thru out the days of chalet even though there was no one there i know veri well about to talk cock or play game thru out the nite but to sleep in the rm .SOb SOb .ANi way have a good time playing ps2 winning eleven over at the chalet.  

Annual Secondary school Sec 4A chalet!!! 4-6july.Hmm been writing belated blog recently as event just keep coming up that i have not enough time to blog as last week two chalet come in consequetive date ,SO finish one have to rush to the other one. For this yrs chalet ,we held it over at the aranda chalet ,although the turn up rate is not that great but it still a good amount of people .It been a six month since our class last gathering so it is like there are not much to talk about but to play games and tell ghost story at night.WE had barbecue at the first nite as the turn up rate is the highest on the first nite.Beside holding it as a gathering , we set it for the birthday for our monitor -chengcai whom birthday fall within the day of chalet .SO once again happi birthday.I stay thru out the chalet as i was the most free person ,having flexible working time but most impt i was the person driving the stuff in out of chalet.I guess the poor turn up rate is due to everyone having the commitment of work which they are unable not to go work as compared to the secondary school life where we are once young and free.So what does this mean.ALl of us are now Old and Jail to work/School .Hehehe 

Stupid odd week!!! Have not been blogging for around 1 week cause was pretty busy with quite a number of stuff. This is due to the crash of Biz ad foc (a councillor helping up to take care of the yr 1) and NPCC LMSC course (a lecturer for area 7 lmsc team building topic). But luckily i have private transport thus able to move around as and when i like. 20 june: first day of foc. went to aljunied mrt to fetch both of my frienz to the camp-yunkai and james.Together 3 of us was late for the camp.But ani way bizadder always late.Check in to KR after which proceed over for some running games like amazing race. Lurch over at SRC swimming pool where we proceed to pool game then end off at Biz canteen having dinner. Night i guess was a bit exciting for the junior where they come face to face with some terrible frightening "ghost" which i tried last year .I really admire those who make up to be the ghost as they dun afraid of disturbing the real ghost. 21june :One full days of games over at sentosa .this group photo was taken at sentotosa as it seem that this is the time where we have almost full strength of ppl. After reaching back Kr ,all of us went for supper at Fong seng .Then i went home after that as the next day have to report to sengkang sec for th lmsc course . I missed the inter faculty games which coincides with my course thus wont there to see other faculty ppl. After my npcc event went home to sleep a while before returning back to nus for the chionging session or should i say the meet the SP session.ALthough this yr i am senior but was ask to be involve as there was not enough guys.Involving wont be a problem but the problem is that have to be "Taken" by the ppl who is not involved in the game.It is a damn paisei session. I was ask to walk around asking each gals whether they are my SP but... i just dun have the "sie" to spot my SP thus making numerous mistake( Btw SP things is a game like angel and motal where on the chionging day u will get to know who ur angel is) Went over to china one for the chionging event over at boat quake if i not wrong.SInce i dun like chioning,after the main event finished where ppl proceed to dance i went walking around the place with ZHiwei and james talking cocks. Wish i have bring my skate so that it will not be so boring.AFter this went back school where everyone is wake at around 4pm to go for a jog b4 hearing the senior shouting some tradition cheer fight.U may thinks this is crazy but that biz ad tradition .Have to just monkey see and monkey do lorz. Then went back home again so that the next day can go down to sengkang sec to lecture the kids.Meet my CIBTC course instructor -baoxing. He is currently working as interior designer which i used to dream of studying as it was so cool .Just when i feel that i can relax and enjoy some break i break down with thus wasnt able to blog till now. Even as i type this now i was feeling unwell ,guess have to stop here and rest.For those who have read this plz ignore any english problem is this piece of work.hehehe  

18 jun night.Went over to Kbox orchard outlet at cineleisure at around 730pm.This actually was organised for the nusnpccbut the turn up rate was low but aniway get maximum singing this time round.Lisking(The handsome guy to the left ) come just to listen to us and never sing ani sone felt a bit sad for him to come wasting money and time--->blame the organiser vincent(2nd from left) hehehe.I finally found a close enough frienz who can mimic andy lau and is quite close to andy voice(the guy to th far right) perhaps i have to "Bai" him as my tutor to teach me hehehe .CAN??? CAN?? Beside mimic andy voice, he can also sing well not let me who just keep going wrong key now and then.Nonetheless i still love to go KTV cos is i felt that singing is a way that u can expressed ur feeling or have fun even though u go wrong key .(take note no one is aimming to be the next JUE DUI superstar so why bother with wrong key)